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Ham apni life me Jo bhi karte hai regular basis par, vo hamari aadat zaroor banta hai. Kuch addatein aasaani se lag jati hai to kuch me bahut vakt aur effort lagta hai.
Jo aadatein aasaani se lag jaye vo aksar buri aadatein hoti hai kyuki unke liye hame kuch Naya seekhna nahi padta aur aisa bhi kuch nahi karna padta jisme dimag lagana pade.

Jin aadaton mein effort lagta hai vo aksar achhi aadatein hoti hai kyuki unke liye hame kuch na kuch Naya seekhna padta haiaur apne dimag ko chalana padta hai.

Ab ye choice apki hai ki apko kis prakar ki aadatein dalni hai vo Jo apko life me aage badhayengi, confident banayegi ya phir vo Jo apko kamjor bana dengi, apka atmvishwas khatam kar dengi.
Ab ek sawal dimag me aata hai ki jo asee habits hai jinse ham keval khud ko nuksan pahuchega vo bhi Kam aur ham normal life lead kar sakte h jaise weekly ek do bar masturbate, tv, daily kafi time internet par non productive, dosto ke sath time pass etc. Ye asee aadatein hai jinme ham kisi aur ko nuksan nahi pahucha rhe, aur khud ko bhi nahi to inko poori tarah khatam kyu karna chahiye ya na ke barabar. Necche kuch reasons diye Gaye hai jinko padhne ke bad ap decisions le sakte hai ki apko ky karna chahiye.
1. Ye Jo bhi habits apko batai ye sab bekar nahi hai aur normal life lead karna bura nahi hai lekin agar aap apni life me kuch bahut bada achieve karna chahte ho, apke lakshya bahut bade hai, ap history create karna chahte ho, ap inspiration banna chahte ho aur duniya me kuch change Lana chahte ho, kuch achha karna chahte ho bade level par to apko ye sab chhodna hoga phir AP normal life lead nahi kar sakte.

Chandragupt ne jab chankya se pucha ki ky prem karna galat hai to chankya ne jawab diya bilkul nahi, balki prem se pavitra kuch nahi lekin tumhara lakshya poore Bharat ka samrat banna hai isliye tumhare liye ye paap hai, kyuki tumhara lakshya bahut bada hai.
2. Jab koi pehli bar cigarette peeta hai to ye uske liye normal hi hoti hai kintu ye ek kab 10 kab 100 ban jati hai pta bhi nahi chalta aur ye apki addiction ban jati hai Jo kabhi nahi badaltee. Matlab aaj Jo apki normal habits hai vo kab apki addiction ban jati hai apko pata bhi nahi chalta aur ap inke gulam ban jate ho aur jab apko kuch aur karne ki zaroorat hoti hai tab bhi ap ye hi kar rahe hote ho aur jab apki ek addiction lagti hai to dusri buri aadat bhi aap accept kar lete ho kyuki ek buri aadat dusri ko attract karti hai aur vo aur buri aadat ko.

A level people attract A level people but B level people attract C Level people same in habbit.- Jack welch
Addiction se bachne ka keval ek tarika hai ki vo pehli cigarette mat piyo, vo pehla drink mat banao.
3. Sawal ye aata hai ki lakshya bada kyu rakhe kyuki jab har vyakti chhota lakshya rakhega to usse desh ki tarakki rukegi, poore vishv ka vikas rukega. Jaise aap khud banoge vse hi aap apne aas pass ke logo ko banoage. Yadi ap achhe Kam karoge to baki sab bhi apko dekh kar kuch achha seekhenge aur agar kuch bura karoge to bura.

Chhota lakshya apradh hai - Apj Abdul kalam
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How to Learn from failure?

How to learn from failure?

If you want to get success in your life than you have to cross many failures. So you should know how you can learn from failure. This article will help you in this.

First make a list of works which you have done for your goal.  

Now divide them into two parts.

First write those works which gave you profit. These are the works which you should repeat again. You can improve them also.

Second write those works which gave you loss.

These are the works which you should not do again. Some works of them can be improved.

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Best motivational channels on YouTube

If you are searching for best inspiring content than you will get a list of the best motivational channels on YouTube.

1. Sandeep maheshwari
2. Vivek Bindra
3. Himeesh madaan
4. Ujjwal patni
5. Ts madaan
6. Abhinav prateek
7. Sonu Sharma
8. Mohammad shakeel
9. Mahendra dogney
10. Pushkar Raj thakur
11. Aditya Kumar
12. Raj alampur
13. Rajesh Agarwal
14. Seeken
15. Varun pruthi
16. Bk shivani
17. Josh talks
18. Simerjeet Singh
19. Robin Sharma
20. Saurav shukla
21. Ajay Sharma
22. Santosh nayar
23. Shiv khera
24. Fundatube
25. Roopali shukla
26. Harshvardhan jain

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Hardwork vs Smartwork, How to do Smartwork?

Hardwork vs Smartwork

How to do Smartwork?

Success only comes by combination of Hardwork and Smartwork not only by Hardwork. 

So now question comes how we can check that we are doing only hardwork or both.

Hardwork

When you do hardwork, you work until you achieve your goal but you never check your progress, mistake, success, way etc.

Hardwork is must for success because one who is hardworker he never gives up. But only hardwork is not enough for success because we get success but a little or very late.

Smartwork

During Smartwork you do hardwork for your goal but including these points:-

• You check if you are working hard on right way or not. If not you change it immediately.
• You check if your speed is enough or not for achieving your goal on time. If not you increase your speed.
• You check if you are doing anything wrong or not. If yes, you list down all mistakes and cure them.
• You also acquire new skills with your work which improve your work. (आपने कुल्हाड़ी को धार लगाने वाली कहानी तो सुनी ही होगी, if not click, in this link video is not mine)
• Most important:- You think 

How can I improve my work?

What can I eliminate to make better my work?

What can I add to my work to improve it?

How can I increase speed of my work?

What can be a new way to do it?

So finally we can say that

Hardwork - More effort - More time - Less success

Smart work - Less effort - Less time - More success.

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How to achieve your goal?

How to achieve your goal?

All we have many goals in life but we achieve only a few. In this blog I am sharing step by step process to achieve your all goals. Read the full blog.

6 steps to achieve your goals

#1. Write your goal with deadline

First, write your goal which should be smart.

S - Specific ( Characteristics of goal)

A car ×, Hyundai grand i 10 car✓

M - Measurable ( Give a number to it)

A lot money ×, 1,00,000 in this month✓

A - Achievable ( It should be practical)

Millionaire in this week ×

R - Relevant ( It should be legal and ethical)

T - Time bound ( Give a deadline to it)

I will buy this car within 6 months✓

#2. List of works

Make a list of work which you have to do for achieving your goal

Make a list of things which you will need in achieving this goal.

Make a list of ideas of work so that you can achieve your goal.

• Choose the best work among your list.
• Collect all necessary things.
  

#3. Upcoming obstacles

When river flows it gets stones in its way but it makes a way. 

Rivers  don't go reverse. - Dr Vivek Bindra

Write upcoming problems in advance so that you don't have to reverse.

#4. Write solutions

Write all the solutions which you will do for upcoming problems.

Problems come, you will solve.×

                         OR,

Do preparation, problem can't come.✓

#5. Action

Now it's time to take action. Do hardwork for your goals.

#6. Stick to your goal

Many problems will come to stop you. You have to hold your goal until you achieve it.

The only secret to achieve your goals- Never give up.

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6 steps to overcome failure
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How to become an expert of any field?

How to become an expert in any field?

If you want to get succeed in any field than you should be an expert of that particular field. There are four major steps to be master of any field. Read the full blog to know about them.

4 steps to become an expert

#1. Learn

To become an expert first we should get as much knowledge and information as we can. 

Always get knowledge from right sources. Right sources mean those people who have got succeed in that particular field, who are the expert of that particular field.

• Read their books
• Read their biography
• Watch their interviews and videos
• Take a particular coaching from any expert
• Most important:- Also read about those people who have got failed in that particular field. You will learn those mistakes which you should not do.
  

#2. Practice and get experience
Only knowledge is waste if it is not implemented. So you should not collect only information but also apply. Not theoretical but practical gives you confidence.
So learn and apply, learn and apply

• You can do a job related to that field.
• You can do some work for free.
• Collect your feedback both negative and positive.

#3. Check

Now observe your mistakes in your work. You can do it self and also you can take feedbacks of people.

• Make a list of mistakes.
• Think why you did that mistake.(list of reasons)
• Think how you can overcome it.(list of solutions)
• Write the learnings from each mistake.

#4. Cure
Now cure all your mistakes. For it you have to repeat all three steps again.

• First get learnings from that mistake.
• Second apply them into a job or work.
• Now again check your mistakes
• If mistakes are there, repeat again this process.

After repeating this cycle again and again you will be an expert and a master of that field.
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Crack govt job exams, 12th fail book summary part 2 by Narendra yadav

Crack govt job exams
12th fail book summary

Part 2
Study lesson from 12th fail book

• जब भी आप पढ़ाई शुरू करो तो stopwatch on कर दो। अगर बीच में आप किसी से बात करो या कुछ भी करो तो stopwatch off करो और जब फिर से पढ़ो तो ऑन कर दो। इससे आपको पता चल पायेगा कि कितनी पढ़ाई आपने वास्तव में की। हकीकत में हम उतना नहीं पढ़ते हैं जितना कि हम सोचते हैं क्योंकि पढ़ते वक़्त हम बीच में कई काम कर लेते है।
  
• किसी भी प्रश्न का उत्तर लिखने से पहले हमेशा उसकी रूपरेखा तैयार करो क्योंकि जो तैयारी करते हैं उत्तर सबको मालूम है लेकिन उत्तर कितनी अच्छी शैली में लिखा गया ताकि जांच करने वाले को अच्छी तरह समझ आ सके, मार्क्स इसी बात के मिलते हैं।
  
• गलती आप फाइनल टेस्ट में करो इससे अच्छा ये होगा कि प्रैक्टिस टेस्ट में करो। इतने मॉक टेस्ट दो कि सारी गलती पहले ही पता चल जाए और सुधर जाए। केवल याद करने की बजाय याद करना और प्रैक्टिस दोनों को साथ चलने दो।
  
• हर चैप्टर या प्रश्न याद होने पर खुद को शाबाशी दो जिससे आपको सेल्फ मोटिवेशन मिलेगा।
  
• आपका लक्ष्य नौकरी नहीं देश सेवा होना चाहिए।
  

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